A Step-by-Step Guide on How to Create Your Own Artsy Happy Mail

If you’ve always wanted to start creating your own snail mail letters, but don’t really know where to start, this step-by-step guide is made for you! Crafting happy mail is such a fun hobby and can help you channel your creativity. The following steps are a framework for you to get started on your snail mail journey. You can either follow these exact steps, or jump around and see what works the best for you!

Let’s get started on this how-to pen pal tutorial!

50 Unique Goodies & Gifts to Send in Your Next Pen Pal Letter

Sending your snail mail friends some goodies is always a fun way to spice up your pen pal letters. It adds a little flair to an already thoughtful letter, and best of all, your small extras don’t need to be costly! There are plenty of ways to DIY some pen pal extras to send in your next happy mail. One suggestion to tie the whole letter together is by matching your small gifts to your theme! Browse the list below for some inspiration and send your pen friends some unique gifts.

100 Fun & Interesting Questions to Get to Know Your Pen Pal

Coming up with new and fresh questions can be challenging when you’ve written a ton of pen pal letters. I’ve compiled a list of one hundred questions to ask your pen pal for your reference. This list is not exhaustive, but hopefully it gives you some ideas when you’re feeling stuck in a rut! I tried to think of some unique questions to ask your snail mail friends to keep things interesting. Take a look below and save this list for your reference if you like these questions.

25+ Ideas on Writing the First Letter to A New Pen Pal

Writing to someone new and introducing yourself can feel intimidating. I totally understand the awkwardness you may feel when sitting down to finally write that letter. But worry not! I have a checklist that should take the pressure off of writing the first letter to your brand new pen pal. The list will be broken down into the two key components of the pen pal letter, as seen within the Instagram pen pal community. This checklist can be applied to e-pals, snail mail friends, or general online friends (like on Instagram!)

Five Different Suggestions on Where to Find Pen Pals

If you’re new to the pen pal community and have no idea where to get started, have no fear! I’ve compiled a short list of sites that are great for finding pen pals and fellow snail mail enthusiasts. Remember that there’s no pressure to send physical mail if you’re not feeling up for it. Keep reading to see how to find pen pals when you’re just starting out!